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Shortly after her mother passed away, Paula, 33, began to feel a strong urge to hold on to artifacts that were reminiscent of her, such as her hairbrush and a basket of shells collected on a family vacation to St. Simon Island. But what began as a means of coping with grief quickly morphed into something more. After her beloved grandparents also passed, Paula inherited additional pieces to which she felt connected, like her grandmother’s paint brushes, canning jars and miniature display plates. In addition to the emotional attachment she felt toward her late loved ones’ former belongings, Paula felt a sense of responsibility as their keeper — and a lot of guilt at the thought of getting rid of anything. Over the decades that followed, her children and husband frequently pleaded with her to declutter, but she “struggled to do it because what they saw as insignificant or unimportant was extremely important to me,” she says. Even if you’ve never inherited a loved ones’ things, it’s common to feel a sense of agony over cleaning out your closet or simply dealing with the ever-growing clutter on your desk. Many of us have deep, sometimes subconscious, connections to our stuff, which can require more than decluttering. The stronger the hold our stuff has on us, the greater the risk of developing a problematic attachment to objects. Here’s how to tell when you’ve gone too far.More From Good Housekeeping Object attachment isn’t necessarily pathologicalAn inclination to hold on to items is completely normal, and most of us have some sort of a relationship with our stuff, says psychologist and object attachment expert Keong Yap, DPsych of Australian Catholic University. This is particularly true following a major life event such as the loss of a loved one or a big move. It becomes a problem when those feelings lean toward extremes, Yap explains. Most people have cherished objects they’d find difficult to discard that carry positive associations for us, and negative emotions arise when they go missing. But people who want to hold on to possessions don’t necessarily have hoarding disorder. According to a recent study by Yap and colleagues, those with HD associate both positive and negative emotions with their adored items. Feeling simultaneously happy, anxious and sad about one’s belongings can be indicative of an insecure relationship with them.A study published in Pyschotraumatol explains that, since humans are a social species, a history of interpersonal trauma or loneliness can push us to overcompensate, sometimes by buying and forming relationships with possessions instead. This stems from being unable to trust people and instead putting faith in objects, Yap explains. Tom Hanks’ character’s relationship with Wilson the volleyball in Castaway is one example of this. All alone on an island with no other humans, Hanks had to form a relationship with Wilson to cope. Object attachment can often be traced back to childhoodAccording to Yap, object attachment often appears to develop later in life, but many, like Paula, trace its roots back to childhood. As we age, we tend to have more money than when we were younger, so attachment tendencies we’ve always had become more obvious with our newfound ability to buy stuff to comfort ourselves. Tendencies we had as children to self-soothe with a security blanket or favorite stuffed toy in the absence of secure parents or caretakers can crop up again as a coping mechanism as we grow older, explains cognitive behavioral psychologist Elspeth Bell, Ph.D. As adults, object attachment can serve the same purpose as retail therapy, as a way to soothe ourselves through adverse circumstances.Related StoryWhat triggers emotional attachment varies from person to person, says Bell. For Paula, whose father was in the Navy, moving around a lot as a kid left her without a strong sense of home. Frequent moves also meant she couldn’t bring many physical items with her from location to location. Bereavement can also be a huge trigger because rarely do people suddenly inherit an entire house full of items except in conjunction with grief, according to Bell and Yap. That combination of factors can set off a tendency toward hoarding. This was certainly the case for Paula, who credits losing her mother with setting off her desire to hold onto things. Even though she noticed the connection as it was happening, she failed to do anything about it out of fear that the happy memories her stuff evoked would disappear if she let go of the items themselves.Nico De Pasquale Photography//Getty ImagesSociety reinforces our need to gather goodsToday’s consumerist society constantly encourages us to buy, buy, buy, with endless advertisements for products we “can’t live without.” This environment combined with even the slightest inclination to hold on to items can create or exacerbate a tendency toward outsize object attachment.At the same time, we can’t get away from messaging about decluttering, whether it’s Marie Kondo encouraging you to get rid of whatever doesn’t spark joy, television series cheering people on for cleaning up or a new IKEA catalog (or Good Housekeeping article) suggesting specific furniture to organize your home. None of this is motivating for those with an outsize attachment to objects, who likely already know they need to throw out a few boxes (or more), says Yap. Instead, messaging focused on decluttering can invoke shame and makes those with problematic bonds to their stuff even less inclined to address the issue. However, recent design trends show signs of a shift. Maximalism has become more prevalent in interior design, according to design expert Annika Hansteen-Izora. Throughout the COVID-19 pandemic, many of us have spent more time at home, which led to a spike in home improvement projects over the past two years. That reflects “a wider trend of some people whose lives slowed down,” according to Hansteen-Izora. “People are thinking about what they hold important in life and finding ways to make that importance reflect in various areas, whether that be the design of their home, picking up new hobbies or switching careers.” Many of Bell’s clients say that bears out in their own experiences as well, as they feel a greater sense of security when surrounded by their things. Stuff can also serve as an identity marker that people are reluctant to give up. Hansteen-Izora and Bell both note that objects can instill a sense of self. For example, if you express yourself through fashion, it may be difficult to let go of clothes, even if you don’t wear them anymore.How to recognize when you’re getting too attached If your attachment to stuff is getting in the way of your life, you may want to seek help. Paula struggled when loved ones encouraged her to get rid of her things, and she still does. But she recently completed a big clean-out of her house with the help of her children. “I’d like to say it’s easier today than it used to be, but it’s really not,” she says. “It’s been a lifelong struggle. I’m just more able to handle it now.” She credits her supportive family and says their conversations over the years helped her realize that her loved ones didn’t have the same attachment to the things she was clinging to. Their encouragement made it easier to let things go, a little bit at a time. If you find yourself having strained conversations with loved ones over accumulating items or the state of your home is getting in the way of meaningful relationships, that’s a sign your attachment to stuff might be a problem, according to Bell and Yap. For example, if you can’t use a room in your house anymore because it’s too overrun with things or you’re embarrassed to invite friends over due to lack of space or the state of your home, you may be heading into problematic territory. Where to seek helpThe International OCD Foundation has a webpage dedicated to the topic of hoarding disorder and is running an online conference in March 2023, for affected individuals and family members. Additionally, the Institute for Challenging Disorganization operates a database of professional organizers, including numerous experts who are familiar with the mental health element of object attachment and can adjust their approach accordingly.And finally, remember that just because you can’t throw out your grandpa’s favorite sweater or your childhood keepsakes doesn’t mean you have a problem. “Emotional attachment to objects is completely normal,” Yap explains. Having things and relationships or sentimental feelings towards them is human nature, as long as you’re still able to treasure people over things. Sydney is a writer and international education professional from Seattle. 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Dust is inevitable. That’s because dust is buildup created by airborne particles of fine, dry matter — pollen, skin flakes, fabric particles, dirt and sand. Just about anything in your home, and outside of it for that matter, can add to the amount of dust in your home. Because of this, it can seem like you can never completely get rid of dust — and that’s a problem not only for aesthetic reasons, but also because household invaders like dust mites can cause issues for allergy sufferers, according to the Asthma and Allergy foundation of America. But there are a few things that can help to really cut down on the amount of dust in your home. For starters, keep your windows closed to help prevent pollen and other outdoor pollutants from infiltrating your rooms. To prevent dust, you should also consider placing doormats in front of every entrance and vacuuming often if you have wall-to-wall carpeting, which tends to trap dust. Mattresses can be another hot-spot for dust mites, so make sure yours is in a mattress protector, plus it helps to buy bedding and pillows that can be regularly washed in hot water. For the best results, you’ll also likely want to amend your current cleaning routine, too, says cleaning expert Carolyn Forté, executive director of the Home Care & Cleaning Lab at the Good Housekeeping Institute. According to her, you should be dusting your furniture once per week and doing a deeper dust — think light fixtures and blinds — once per month. Every three to six months, you’ll also want to clean under and behind furniture, vacuum mattresses and wash pillows and comforters. But this is just the starting point. Because dust is so prevalent, you’ll find it in just about every nook and cranny of your home — some harder to reach than others. Here you’ll find targeted strategies for getting rid of dust in all areas of your house, plus the best tools for making it happen.For basic dustingFirst, put down the feather duster. No matter what you may have been told, they are far from helpful. “This tool simply spreads dust from one surface to another,” Carolyn says. Instead, you can more successfully capture dust with a soft cloth lightly dampened with water or a furniture dusting spray, a microfiber duster or an electrostatic duster, which use static electricity to pick up more dust particles.Dusting EssentialsFor dusting electronicsComputers, speakers, printers and TVs are notorious dust magnets. Always unplug the equipment before cleaning. A gentle swipe with a microfiber cloth usually does the job, while a soft, long-handled microfiber duster will collect dust from crevices. Be sure to vacuum dust from around cords and vents because, along with pet hair, it can clog machines or outlets.For getting rid of dust on hardwood floorsVacuum your hardwood floors at least weekly and wet clean them every one to two months (more or less frequently, depending on traffic). For surface-treated floors, spray a small 3-foot by 3-foot area with a hardwood floor cleaner like Bona Hardwood Floor Cleaner Spray and pick up any dissolved dirt with a microfiber mop. Repeat, working in small areas, until the entire floor is clean.For dusting ceilings, walls and baseboardsFor ceiling-to-floor cleaning, a top-performing vacuum with multiple attachments is the most efficient tool. Look for a machine that comes with a hose, extension wands and either a small round dusting brush or a bare floor brush, advises Carolyn. It’s also helpful to look for a vacuum with a replaceable or washable HEPA filter, since these are capable of capturing smaller particles of dust. Alternatively, a dry Swiffer Sweeper works just as well, plus is a convenient option, because the cloth is disposable. When dusting walls, work from the top down to capture the most dust without making a mess. For baseboards, start by vacuuming with the vacuum’s round brush to remove dust. Then, tackle dingy spots using a wet cloth. Lightly spray it with water or an all-purpose cleaning solution, like Lysol All-Purpose Cleaner and run it over baseboards to whisk debris away in a flash. More Dusting EssentialsFor getting rid of dust in carpetsWhen it comes to carpets, an ounce of prevention goes a long way. Try implementing a no-shoes-in-the-house rule, stashing extra slippers or flip-flops next to the door to help make it easier to adopt this new habit. You can also regularly use a rechargeable stick vacuum in your entryway to collect dirt before it makes its way into your carpet. It also helps to place doormats outside your door, so everyone can wipe their feet before they go inside. Of course, you’ll also want to clean your carpets with a vacuum equipped with a HEPA filter regularly. Our pros love the Miele Complete C3 Canister Vacuum, since it has a HEPA filter as well as five power settings to work on all carpet heights and densities.For dusting ceiling fansTurn off the power source, then remove loose dust with an extendable duster or the extension hose on your vacuum cleaner. Alternatively, you can grab a step stool and dust both sides of the blade with a dry microfiber cloth. To capture any remaining fine particles, wet a clean microfiber cloth with a grease-cutting all-purpose cleaner and wipe down both sides of the blades once more.For dusting behind appliancesOver time, crumbs, grease and other debris accumulate behind your stove and refrigerator, providing a food source for insects and other pests. If possible, move the appliance out from the wall and unplug. Then, use your vacuum’s crevice tool attachment to remove loose dirt and dust. If any dust remains, you can use a long-handled, slightly damp sponge mop to lift dust from the back of the appliance. To finish, wipe down the floor and the wall with a microfiber cloth and hot sudsy water.For dusting vents and filtersRemove heavy dust from ceiling, floor or appliance vents with a soft-brush vacuum attachment or electrostatic mop, like the Swiffer Sweeper). (You can also use a long-handled microfiber duster.) Then, dampen a microfiber cloth and wipe the surface. And don’t forget about your air conditioner filters — whether it’s a window unit or a central air system, routine AC cleaning and maintenance is key to the performance and longevity of the unit. Always follow your unit’s manufacturer cleaning recommendations, but you can usually wash removable foam window air-conditioning filters in hot soapy water, rinse well and air-dry before reinstalling. For dusting curio cabinetsTo get at dust trapped in tiny nooks and intricate carvings, use a clean natural-bristle paint or makeup brush, then wipe with a microfiber cloth. For dusting fabric furniture and soft toys Use a garment steamer on fabric furniture and bean bags, teddy bears or fabric dolls to release odors and kill dust mites near the surface, says Carolyn. Then, vacuum each one with your machine’s upholstery or fabric attachment. Some plush toys can also take a spin in the washing machine, but be sure to check the tag before doing so, otherwise you risk damaging the item.For removing dust floating in the airWhile regular cleaning will help keep the dust in your home to a minimum, the harsh reality is that you can never capture it all. But air purifiers really work to help capture some of what you may have missed — at least as far as household allergens like dust mites and pet dander are concerned. Run a top-rated air purifier equipped with a HEPA filter, like the Levoit Core 400S Smart True HEPA Air Purifier, all the time when you’re home. Related StoriesLauren is a senior editor at Hearst. She was previously the senior editor at WomansDay.com and the home editor at GoodHousekeeping.com and HouseBeautiful.com. Her book club, ramen, and jean jackets are a few of her favorite things.Brigitt is a writer, editor and craft stylist with nearly 15 years of experience. She specializes in creating SEO and e-commerce content across a variety of lifestyle topics, including home, health, parenting, beauty, style, food, entertaining, travel and weddings. She also has significant experience creating native and branded content.This content is imported from OpenWeb. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site. More

If you’re well-seasoned or new to the world of crafts and DIYs, the GH Stitch Club is the perfect place to learn how to crochet, knit, macramé and more. There are helpful how-to videos as well as the latest tips and tricks to keep your family engaged and creative. As the months get colder, you may be looking to pick up a new hobby or project, making our simple guide on how to crochet for beginners great to keep on hand whenever you have free time to spare.In this tutorial, we’re showing you the basics and everything you need to crochet your very own bobble cowl — a crochet cowl pattern typically made with lightweight yarn for any novice. This crochet project is ideal for a novice, as it can be made in a couple of hours. It’s perfect for winter and even holiday presents (check out our holiday gift ideas for cheap, thoughtful and personalized options).So follow our simple steps for instructions on how to make a bobble cowl. You can also watch our video above for step-by-step visuals.How to Crochet a Bobble CowlWhat You’ll NeedTips to Remember Before Starting:When you’re grabbing your yarn and looking for the end to start, it’s always going to be on the left side of the logo. Check the back of the label for the knitting needle or crochet hook you choose to use. Step 1: Begin with a slip knot.For every crochet project, you want to start with a slip knot. Cross the yarn over itself and then pull the tail through to make the loop. Slip your crochet hook through the slip knot.Step 2: Crochet your foundation chain.Next is your foundation chain. Wrap your yarn from behind and over the hook. Pull that yarn through. Repeat the process until you have 32 loops in your foundation chain (you don’t count the first loop in your hook). Tip: Make sure your tension isn’t too tight, as your finished scarf will turn out small.Step 3: Slip stitch.Use a slip stitch to join the ends together, creating a ring. Do this by inserting your hook into the first chain. Yarn over and pull your yarn through the first chain on the scarf before pulling it through the first chain on your hook. Step 4: Create your bobbles. Begin by chaining two loops, then yarn over. Insert your hook into the first space (chain) before pulling through. Yarn over, insert hook, yarn over and pull through three times in the same space to create your bobble. You should have seven loops on your hoop. Yarn over your hook and pull through all seven loops on your hook to finish the loop. Then chain one stitch to secure. Create a second bobble by skipping the next chain and working into the third chain on the loop. Repeat the bobble process until you have 16 bobbles in the first row. Join in the round by slip stitching in the first two chains before making the first bobble. Insert the hook, yarn over, pull through, then pull through the first loop that is on your hook. Chain in two and create your bobble in the space next to your chain. Tip: Slip stitch to join the second row together. Step 5: Incorporate new yarn.When you’re at the end of your yarn, take the yarn from your new ball and yarn over with the original yarn and the new one. Pull those both through to secure the bobble. Continue the pattern to create another bobble into the next space until the new ball is used up. Step 6: End your scarf.At seven rounds, you should be back to your starting point (where you made your slip knot at the tail). End your scarf by making another slip stitch. Insert the hook into the top of the last bobble in the previous round. Yarn over, pull through and pull through the loop on your hook. Yarn over, pull through and cut the tail. Tip: Weave in loose ends with your crochet hook. Mariah Thomas (she/her) is an assistant editor for Good Housekeeping, where she covers home and lifestyle content. Mariah has more than four years of editorial experience, having written for TLC, Apartment Therapy, Women’s Health and Avocado Magazine. She received her master’s degree in journalism at the Craig Newmark Graduate School of Journalism and published her first book, Heart and Soul: Poems of Thoughts and Emotions, in 2019. She’s also the founder of RTF Community, a platform for creatives of color to connect, learn and showcase their work. This content is imported from OpenWeb. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site. More

Windows are a vital feature of any home — but they’re also one of the most forgotten. After all, we spend most of the time looking right through them. The fact is, windows have an enormous impact on a home’s style and performance. Top-quality units enhance curb appeal and make the interior of your home more attractive, too. Good windows can also drastically improve your home’s energy efficiency and ventilation, and they’re much easier to clean and maintain than lower-quality options.While the benefits of new windows are clear-cut, shopping for new windows is anything but. It’s a high-stakes decision too, with the average cost of replacing a single window coming in around $650, according to home services marketplace Angi. For a typical home, the total all-in cost is between $3,000 and $10,000. Choosing a top window brand is a good place to start the window-buying process. The home renovation experts at the Good Housekeeping Institute have been evaluating window brands for decades, so we’ve compiled the list of market leaders based on key criteria, including availability, selection, price range and service. Though prices can vary significantly even within the same brand, depending on the size and features, we provided the following ballpark pricing guidelines for a standard double-hung window: $ = $150 to $200$$ = $200 to $400 $$$ = $400 to $600 $$$$$ = $600 and up Here, in alphabetical order, are the best window brands to consider for your next project.AndersenCourtesy of Andersen WindowsFounded in 1903, Andersen is one of the biggest names in window manufacturing. The company is headquartered in Bayport, Minnesota (the Midwest is a hotbed of window making) with more than 30 manufacturing, distribution and retail locations nationwide. The company is known for quality and innovation — it developed the first wood-clad windows in 1966 and the first composite windows in 1999. EXPLORE ANDERSON WINDOWSAvailability: Andersen has an extremely wide distribution network, including local showrooms and at the Home Depot. Meanwhile, Renewal by Andersen is the brand’s full-service window replacement subsidiary, operating in more than 100 markets nationwide, making it one of the largest replacement window companies in the country.Selection: Choose from wood, composite, vinyl, aluminum and fiberglass in virtually every size and configuration — single and double hung, casement, awning, passthrough and more — and either replacements or new-construction. Price Range: $$ to $$$$$ Because Anderson has such a wide selection, its pricing also runs the spectrum, from inexpensive vinyl windows costing around $250 per unit to high-end custom wood windows that are closer to $1,000.Service: This is another area where Andersen shines. Through its vast distribution network, it offers extensive design services, including lots of helpful online visualization tools to help you see what different window options will look like in your home. It’s also easy to locate a certified contractor in your area to handle the installation through the Andersen website. Jeld-WenA bank of double-hung windows with 4-over-4 divided lites brings fresh air and natural light to a traditional kitchen.Jeld-WenWhen it comes to sheer size, Jeld-Wen takes the prize, with more than a billion dollars in annual revenue. The Charlotte, North Carolina-based company was founded in 1960 and now boasts 117 manufacturing facilities across 19 countries. It’s more mass-market than other window brands on this list, with vast lines of inexpensive replacement windows, though it also makes custom units. EXPLORE JELD-WEN WINDOWSAvailability: The brand is one of the easiest to find, thanks to its expansive dealer network and partnerships with major retailers like the Home Depot and Pella 150 Series Vinyl Replacement Double-Hung WindowComposite WindowAndersen 100 Series Single-Hung Composite Window✔️ Special Features: Once you settle on the window type and material, consider these additional features:Energy efficiency: The best windows reduce energy costs in a few ways. Double-glazed windows have a sealed cavity between two panes of glass that’s often filled with air or argon gas, which reduces the transfer of heat through the window. Low-emissivity (low-E) coatings improve the efficiency by reflecting heat while still letting in light. In warm regions, the coating is applied to the outside of the glass to keep out the heat from the sun; in cold regions, the low-E coating is on the inside of the window to keep the heat in. Buying windows that carry the Energy Star label will ensure maximum efficiency.Impact resistance: If you live in hurricane country or anywhere that experiences extreme weather, you should consider windows with impact-resistant glass. Also known as “hurricane windows,” the units are even required by building in many high-risk areas. The windows sandwich a strong polymer layer between two panes of glass, providing reinforcement and holding the glass together even if it shatters from fast-flying objects.Grilles: On single and double-hung windows, grilles divide the top and/or bottom glass into multiple sections (or “lites”) for a more traditional look; windows are often referred to how many individual lites are on each pane, for example “2 over 2” or “4 over 4.” True-divide lites use individual glass panes, driving up cost and decreasing energy efficiency Simulated divided lites mimic the look of individual panes without sacrificing efficiency. Why trust Good Housekeeping?Before becoming a home renovation expert, Dan DiClerico worked for a remodeling company that specialized in windows, roofs and other exterior projects. He has since written dozens of articles on windows, including buying guides, how-tos on the replacement process and tips for making your existing units more energy efficient. Dan is a regular at housing trade shows, where he keeps up with the latest innovations, from impact-resistant glass to integrated screen systems. As the director of the Home Improvement & Outdoor Lab at the Good Housekeeping Institute, Dan oversees testing of windows, along with other exterior products, like roofing, siding and doors. Related StoriesHaving written thousands of product reviews and how-to articles on all aspects of home ownership, from routine maintenance to major renovations, Dan (he/him) brings more than 20 years of industry experience to his role as the director of the Home Improvement & Outdoor Lab at the Good Housekeeping Institute. A one-time roofer and a serial remodeler, Dan can often be found keeping house at his restored Brooklyn brownstone, where he lives with his wife and kids.
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There’s really nothing comfier than a luxurious cashmere sweater when there’s a chill in the air. That’s because cashmere wool isn’t just incredibly soft, it’s also insulating, lightweight and breathable. In other words, cashmere keeps you warm without making you sweat. Another beautiful benefit of cashmere is its durability. Its natural fibers can outlast many of the other sweaters in your drawer with a little TLC.Cashmere is often thought of as hard to care for since it’s sensitive to water temperature and agitation, but don’t let that deter you from having it in your wardrobe. Once you’re familiar with the dos and don’ts, washing cashmere at home is a simple task that can save you loads of time and money. But according to Carolyn Forte, executive director of Good Housekeeping’s Home Care and Cleaning Lab, it’s always best to start by checking the garment’s care label. Some cashmere garments, like jackets, have structure, linings or other reasons why it’s best to take them to a dry cleaner. Keep in mind that if you choose not to follow the care instructions and something goes wrong, like if the color fades or the garment shrinks, you won’t have any recourse. Many care labels on cashmere garments recommend washing by hand or dry cleaning. In those cases, you’re safe choosing either method. If you have basic cashmere items like plain sweaters, scarves or unstructured pants that you’d like to wash at home, follow these simple tips to launder them by hand or by machine. How often should you wash cashmere?Unlike your other winter gear, cashmere should be washed just once or twice during the season, especially if you’re only wearing the sweater on special occasions. Excessive washing can lead to damage, such as shrinkage and pilling. How to handwash cashmerePretreat any stains. Apply a small dab or two of a cashmere-safe detergent or stain remover, like The Laundress New York Wool and Cashmere Shampoo, a 2022 Good Housekeeping Best Cleaning & Organizing Award winner, to spots of food or dirt – even sweat stains under the armpits or around the neckline — and work it into the stain with your fingertips. Avoid scrubbing, which can damage the delicate fibers.Fill a basin or sink with cool water. (For larger items, like blankets, you may need to use the bathtub.) As the water is running, mix in the recommended amount of detergent, then gently immerse the cashmere item.Gently agitate with your hands. Keeping your fingers loose, move the cashmere back and forth, up and down until the soapy water has penetrated the fibers. For the best results, let the cashmere soak for up to 30 minutes. Drain and rinse thoroughly. Drain the sink and if you have a sprayer on your faucet, use it to carefully rinse small items clean. Otherwise, refill the sink with cool water. If you’re using a basin, empty it and replace the soapy water with fresh, cool water. Immerse the item in the clear water and gently agitate it with clean hands to rinse. Repeat this step as necessary until all the soap suds are gone. Gently press and squeeze out excess water. Do this with your hands while the cashmere item is in the sink or basin. Lifting cashmere up when it’s saturated can cause it to stretch and lose its shape and wringing cashmere can damage and flatten the delicate fibers. Then, roll the item in a white towel and carefully press or squeeze out any remaining moisture. What You’ll Need to Care for CashmereSAMMART 2 Gallon Collapsible Washing BasinCredit: SammartThe Laundress New York Wool & Cashmere ShampooCredit: The Laundress New YorkConair Fabric Shaver Now 20% OffCredit: ConairConair Turbo Extreme Steam Fabric SteamerNow 14% OffCredit: ConairHow to wash cashmere in the washing machineSome cashmere can be washed in the washing machine on a delicate cycle, or you may just wish to take this shortcut with well-worn items. In either case, check the item’s care label first and follow its recommendations or these steps. Select the most delicate cycle. Choose your machine’s gentlest cycle, cold water and the lowest spin speed possible. Turn the item inside out. Place it in a mesh delicate fabrics bag to protect it from unnecessary abrasion which can cause pilling. How to dry cashmereFor both handwashing and in the machine, lay the garment flat to dry. Place it on a dry, absorbent white towel and position it in its original shape to air dry. Once the top is dry, flip it over and allow the opposite side to dry completely. How to remove wrinkles and pills from cashmereDespite careful handling, cashmere can get wrinkled or creased. To remove them, use a garment steamer instead of an iron. Direct heat and pressure from an iron flattens cashmere’s natural loft resulting in a less fluffy look and soft feel. And all cashmere – even the highest quality – is prone to pilling. When the fibers break from friction they form unsightly bobbles. To remove them, carefully and lightly run a fabric shaver over the dry, unwrinkled surface of the cashmere to remove any pills. Hold the fabric taut with one hand while you shave pills with the other to prevent any nicks or cuts to the fabric.Evrymmnt//Getty ImagesHow to store cashmereAlways avoid hanging wet cashmere or leaving it in direct sunlight or near heat, which can cause stretching, yellowing, and shrinkage. 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If you’ve ever been caught in a rainstorm wearing your favorite leather jacket, you know all too well how leather responds when it gets wet. It is a hide after all, and most leather clothing is finished for durability, so a few sprinkles or a light rain usually roll right off. But a drenching downpour is another issue. When soaked, leather becomes fragile and can tear easily. That’s why cleaning a leather jacket at home can be risky and needs to be done with care. “If you’ve spent a lot of money on your leather jacket, or even if you haven’t, it’s best to leave major cleanings to a leather care professional,” suggests Carolyn Forte, executive director of the Good Housekeeping Institute Home Care and Cleaning Lab. “Professional cleaners specializing in leather know how to clean both the leather shell and fabric linings without damaging either.” Not all dry cleaners handle leather, so make sure the one you select does so with success. Check online reviews and ask friends and neighbors for the names of reputable leather care specialists they’ve used.What you can do at home is give your jacket a refresh to remove surface dirt and dinginess— especially noticeable on light color leathers — and spot clean problem areas quickly. Follow these leather cleaning tips and approach leather cleaning cautiously after consulting the care label for any special recommendations.As with any at-home method, test it out on a hidden spot (like inside a pocket, cuff or the underside of the lapel) to make sure your cleaning products and technique are not damaging to the leather. Some leather easily loses color, especially when wet. “One of the biggest mistakes people make when cleaning leather clothing is getting it too wet, then rubbing the material too hard,” says Forte. If you see any bleeding or fading, stop what you’re doing immediately and take your leather jacket to a pro.Can I wash my leather jacket in the washing machine?We don’t recommend it. You never want to completely submerge a leather jacket in water because it — along with typical laundry detergents — will remove the natural oils in the hide. Plus, all the tumbling and agitation of the machine can ruin the structure of the jacket. If the inside lining needs a refresh, take it to a pro who can clean it without compromising the quality and health of the leather exterior.How to clean the outside of a leather jacket by handLeather can dry out easily, which can lead to unrepairable cracking, so you never want to fully submerge it in water which can remove the natural oils. Instead, surface and spot clean at home with these easy steps. Apply leather cleaner onto a sponge or cloth and squeeze to produce a foam. (Forte recommends this Leather Care Kit by Furniture Clinic, which also includes a protection cream that helps prevent future stains.) None handy? Fill a small bowl with warm water and, as the water is running, mix in a drop or two of mild dish liquid or neutral soap, then dip in the corner of a clean, soft cloth. Gently rub the foamy sponge (or soapy cloth) on the leather in a circular motion to lift the dirt from the surface.Carefully wipe away the excess cleaner with a damp, well-wrung cloth and repeat these steps as needed, being careful not to rub too vigorously. Turn the sponge or cloth and rinse it as it absorbs dirt to keep from re-depositing soil back onto the leather. Blot the leather dry with a clean towel, then let it air dry completely. Place the leather jacket on a padded or wooden hanger to prevent dimples in the shoulder areas and always hang it away from sunlight and heat, which can cause the leather to dry out and crack. Once dry, apply a leather conditioner to restore moisture and softness.What You’ll Need to Care for a Leather JacketFurnitureClinic Leather Care KitCredit: Furniture ClinicSeventh Generation Free & Clear Dish LiquidCredit: Seventh GenerationFurnitureClinic Microfiber Cloth for LeatherCredit: Furniture ClinicTOPIA HANGER Wooden Coat HangersCredit: Topia HangerHow to clean the inside or lining of a leather jacket Fill a small bowl with warm water and mix in a drop or two of mild dish liquid or neutral soap, then dip in the corner of a clean, soft cloth.Wipe down or blot the inside with the cloth, making sure to pay extra attention to the arm area.Remove excess soap by dipping a clean, soft cloth in just water, and then wiping down the inside again.Place the jacket on a hanger in a well ventilated space for it to air dry.How do I protect my leather jacket from stains?It’s a good idea to regularly apply a leather protector product that repels water droplets, dirt and stains, or at least helps make them easier to remove. Apply it generously when your jacket is new and ideally before the first wearing. Reapply it whenever you or a professional cleans the leather jacket and when you notice that water no longer beads up and rolls off easily. How do I remove oils stains from a leather jacket?The goal here is speed, so act quickly to keep as much of the oil spill as possible from absorbing into the leather. Blot up as much of the fresh oil as possible with an absorbent cloth. For any remaining stain, sprinkle an absorbent powder, like baking soda or cornstarch, generously on the spot and gently tap it in with a cloth. Let it sit for a few hours, then use a dry, soft towel to gently wipe the powder away. Spot clean the area using the steps above, or bring it to a pro who can treat the oil stain with professional-grade cleaners. This content is imported from OpenWeb. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site. More

No two stays are alike at the House of HomeGoods in Hudson Valley, New York. Once you check out, a team of design experts will arrive to convert the house entirely. Wallpaper taken down, walls painted, furniture swapped out and decor styled to curate the following week’s theme. Each stay will offer an at-home activity that pairs with the energy of the home: floral arranging, fire pit cooking, pasta making, candle making. The coolest part? Guests will receive a large suitcase, which they can fill with their favorite finds from the home.Starting today, Tuesday, October 12, guest bookings will release daily at 12 p.m. ET. Travelers can book a weekend stay — for only $29.99 a night — at the two-bedroom countryside home during the following weekends:October 21-23: Designed to spark inspiration, Find Creativity is defined by bold colors and artistic touches.October 28-30: Pumpkins, pinecones, fall foliage and crisp fall hues characterize Find Festivity, which celebrates the beauty of autumn.November 4-6: Exuding a cozy feel, Find Adventure features warm patterns, textures and nature-centric art that inspires wanderlust.November 11-13: Filled with bright hues, vintage-inspired florals and whimsical decor, Find Charm is giving quaint countryside escape.Ready for its first visitors, House of HomeGoods is currently decked out for Find Creativity.Dorothy Hong“We’re excited to offer consumers this bookable getaway that transforms with each stay to create a truly unique experience for guests, just like shopping at HomeGoods,” says Sarah Ajamian, manager of marketing for HomeGoods. Guests will love traveling from room to room as they discover Find Creativity’s monochromatic theme. Wander (and shop) from the purple mudroom into the blue living room back to the two bedrooms, one pink and the other yellow. Then head upstairs to the loft, which feels very orange but welcomes other hues as well. Here’s a peek at our favorite spaces: Blue Living RoomWalls, furniture, rugs and decor — everything is a shade of blue, yet this space still feels soothing and sophisticated.Dorothy HongSwivel OttomanNow 42% OffCredit: TAHARITable LampsCredit: TLC LIGHTINGModern Wall ArtCredit: COLLEEN KARISYellow Bedroom This cheery bedroom prioritizes bright yellow hues, but doesn’t shy away from layering additional textures and colors.Dorothy HongVelvet PillowTufted ThrowCredit: HANDCRAFTED IN INDIASide TableCredit: MADE IN INDONESIAOrange Loft Step upstairs and you’ll find this cozy loft area, complete with bright pops of orange and contemporary artwork for a ton of contrast.Dorothy HongMatte Rings Wall ArtCredit: COLLEEN KARIS DESIGNSChenille ThrowNow 24% OffCredit: ARTELIER NICOLE MILLERModern Wall ArtCredit: BOSTON WAREHOUSEAlyssa Gautieri (she/her) is the associate lifestyle editor for Good Housekeeping, where she covers all things home and interior design. Prior to joining GH in 2022, she wrote for publications including ELLE Decor, Chairish, BobVila.com, Unique Homes Magazine and LODGING Magazine, in addition to crafting product copy for home brands like BrylaneHome and VIGO Industries.This content is imported from OpenWeb. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site. More

Though you’re likely diligent about laundering your bedding, clothing and workout wear on a regular schedule, when is the last time you washed your baseball caps? It’s easy just to take them off and toss them aside, but after wearing them to work out, do yard work, carpool or catch a game, caps collect dirt and sweat – not to mention hair oil and styling product residue, makeup stains and more. Even if you only wear a cap twice a year or so, it’s likely collecting dust, dirt and crumbs sitting in the backseat of your car or the bottom of your closet, and needs a refresh from time to time. Here’s how to wash baseball caps by hand and in the machine according to our Good Housekeeping Institute Cleaning Lab. But first, “always check inside your hat for a care label and if there is one, be sure to follow it,” Carolyn Forte, executive director of the Home Car & Cleaning Lab recommends. Basic caps are easier to wash. Decorative or embellished ones need more TLC. If there’s no label to be found, Forte recommends doing a colorfastness test by placing a few drops of water on all colors, dabbing them with a white paper towel and checking for any color bleeding. If no color comes off, follow these easy hand and machine washing tips. If you see color on the towel, stick with spot cleaning when needed. How often should you wash your baseball cap?If you wear your cap every day or even a few times a week, plan to wash it at least once a month. Only reach for it here and there? Washing it several times a year should be enough. And just like other accessories (think jackets and sneakers), it’s best not to wait until you actually see stains, spots and dirt to wash a baseball cap. By then, they may be harder to remove and soil on the inside from sweat and body oils may not even be visible at all, but it’s there.How to handwash a baseball cap Hand washing your baseball cap is really quite simple, and this method gives you the best chance of keeping the shape intact, if you handle it carefully.Give the hat a good shake or vacuum it with the flat upholstery tool to get rid of any dust and loose dirt. Use a lint roller to remove stuck-on hairs inside and out. Fill your sink, basin or large bowl with cool water, and mix in a few drops of laundry detergent or a grease-cutting dish soap. Apply a drop or two of detergent to any visible stains and work it in with your fingertips or a soft brush. Agitate the water with your hands to create suds, then immerse the hat and move it around gently to help the water penetrate the fibers. Let the baseball cap soak for 15 minutes, then check to see if any spots are still visible. For stubborn stains, use a soft-bristled toothbrush to work a bit more detergent or suds into the fabric. Let sit for 5 minutes then return it to the soapy water and let soak for another 10 minutes. Once clean, place the baseball cap in a colander in the sink and rinse it thoroughly under cool water until all the suds are gone. Gently squeeze out any excess water, but skip the brim, so it keeps its shape. Firmly pat the hat dry with a white lint-free towel to absorb as much moisture as possible. Stuff the inside of the hat with a second clean, dry hand towel or place it on top of a ball or bowl, so it keeps its shape. Let it air dry completely before storing or wearing it. What You’ll Need to Wash a Baseball CapTide Ultra Stain Release Liquid Laundry DetergentNow 58% OffCredit: P&GDawn Ultra EZ-Squeeze Dish SoapCredit: P&GThe Laundress New York Stain BrushCredit: The Laundress New YorkHome Depot Bath Sheet Towel SetCredit: Home DepotHow to wash a baseball cap in the washing machineWhen you’re short on time or sink space, or have a hat that you’re not too concerned about, this set-it-but-don’t-forget-it method is a huge help. And remember to set a timer on your phone, so you can promptly take the hat out of the washing machine when the cycle is done. (Leaving it in the machine too long could make reshaping more difficult.) Like with handwashing, skip the dryer and let the cap air dry, so it doesn’t shrink or lose its shape. And with these tips you won’t need to shell out money for a protective hat washing cage.Pre-treat any visible stains with detergent or an enzyme-based laundry pretreatment. Wash the hat alone, with other hats or with a few lightweight items. Avoid adding anything large or heavy, so the cap doesn’t get crushed inside the washing machine. If you have one, tuck the hat into a mesh wash bag large enough for the hat to fit comfortably inside. Choose the delicate cycle. Check to make sure the water temperature is cold, and the spin speed is set to the slowest your machine offers, so the ball cap doesn’t stretch, shrink, or bend. Remove the hat right promptly. Stuff the inside of the hat with a clean, dry hand towel or place it on top of a ball or bowl, so it keeps its shape and let it air dry. Let it air dry completely before storing or wearing it. How to spot clean a baseball capFor baseball caps with delicate embellishments or details, or vintage styles with cardboard brims (typically from the early 80s or before), spot cleaning is always the best and gentlest method.Apply a small amount of mild laundry detergent or dish soap to a damp, lint-free cloth, then dab it onto any stains or dingy areas. For stubborn spots, swap in an enzyme-based laundry pretreatment product and leave it on the stain for 5 minutes. Using the same damp cloth and small circular motions, carefully work the detergent into the fabric. Rinse with a clean damp cloth and repeat until the area is clean. Avoid harsh or excessive scrubbing, which can damage the fibers. Rinse the cloth clean in cool water, then use it to gently blot away all residual soap on the baseball cap. Repeat as needed, always rinsing the cloth as you go. Stuff the inside of the hat with a clean, dry hand towel or place it on top of a ball or bowl, so it keeps its shape and let it air dry. Let it air dry completely before storing or wearing it. Can you wash a baseball cap in the dishwasher?We don’t recommend it. Hacks like this may seem tempting at quick glance, but there’s really more risk than reward here. The dishwasher is filled with food soils, hot water and dishwasher detergents that while safe for dishes and glasses, may not be so for fabrics. If you care about your hat, it’s best to use one of the tried-and-true laundering methods above. This content is imported from OpenWeb. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site. More